Question: I really want to adopt from a shelter, but they make it so hard I'm considering someplace else?
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Answer #1:
Update the vaccinations on the cat and get the dog.
Answer #2:
Usually if you see fliers those are BYB and you really shouldn't support them at all.
Keep trying, get your cat their vaccinations and try again. Keep asking why they're turning you down and fix it, they're only looking out for the dog. If they turn you down it's usually a sign that maybe your household isn't ready for a new dog.
I know it's tough, but trust me, adopting from a shelter is much more rewarding.
Answer #3:
It is always good to get a dog from a shelter but if you need to, get a dog from someone not from a shelter, just a regular citizen whose dog had puppies.
Answer #4:
Sorry, but your family has shown a history of irresponsible behavior. Your mom was responsible for the dogs and neither trained nor exercised them.
You certainly *can* go to a BYB to get a dog but your family has no idea how to train and care for a dog and it is likely to end badly.
Answer #5:
Go get your cat vaccinated then.. this really isn't brain surgery...
Answer #6:
I do know of 2 seperate people who's dogs aren't neutered and they wouldn't let either of them adopt a spayed female. They are both brilliant dog owners which makes it all the more stupid.
I do have to say though - just because your mam works it doesn't mean she can't walk the dog and it is a poor excuse for rehoming a dog.
That being said one of the people I was talking about bought a dog from awful owners, she was bound to end up in rescue so he more or less rescued her without the middle man.
Have a look on Craigslist and in your local papers/free ads. It's amazing how many people don't want their dog anymore but still have the cheek to ask for money for them.
There's nothing wrong with buying from a breeder either - but don't buy from these people that are advertising like that - they're BYB's.
Answer #7:
Could I suggest that you check out your local shelters to see if they have a volunteer program for kids.
You would learn a lotaboutt he care and training of dogs, the importance of making sure they have proper medical care. I bet if you did this for awhile the shelter would be thrilled to let you adopt a dog.
Answer #8:
hmmmmmmm...that's a hard question to answer. if the shelter is refusing you, it's because they're looking out for their dogs, so it's in the dog's best interest not to go with you. if you want a new dog that badly , and the others have run away and died,were uncontrollable, then try something small. a breed with the same characteristics you have. goldens need excersise, as with all of the bigger dogs. try small at first. little ones and such are all good dogs. if you can't care for a dog properly tho, you really shouldn't get one...but if you really want a companion, then try a small dog. and vaccinate your cat, brother! they have clinics and things all around the city! i got my dogs vaccinated this year for $23 each, cats are even less. shelter dogs are good, and the shelter is just looking for the best for the poor animals. so cut them some slack. if YOU'RE not right for a dog, they won't let you take one home. shape up and clean up your act before you go back.
by the way, i have 2 mixes and they are really even tempered. sometimes pure breeds aren't the way to go. it all depends on you. whatever animal is compatible with you. i'm saying this because shelters wont' have too many purebred animals.
just be aware of yourelf, young grasshopper, know what's good for the animal. not just for you. it's a life, not a toy.
Answer #9:
Fight harder for an adopted dog! They need homes! If you're willing to fight hard for a dog you'll love, he'll fight hard for you too. Don't give up and get your cat vaccinated!
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